Jennifer Lawrence and Josh Hutcherson in Catching Fire. LionsGate

Much has been said, and rightly so, about Katniss Everdeen and the way she challenges a lot of traditional narratives about girls. She carries a bow, she fights, she kills, she survives, she's emotionally unavailable, she'd rather act than talk, and ... did we mention she kills?

But one of the most unusual things about Katniss isn't the way she defies typical gender roles for heroines, but the way Peeta, her arena partner and one of her two love interests, defies typical Hollywood versions of gender roles for boyfriends.

-What Really Makes Katniss Stand Out? Peeta, Her Movie Girlfriend

by Linda Holmes

Linda's article (quoted above) discussing one of the more often ignored, but nonetheless awesome parts of the Hunger Games franchise, the reversal of gender roles in love, is pretty awesome. I know what it is to be the Katniss of the relationship. I know what it is to be emotionally unavailable, a little cold and a bit hard to read because of my steadfast and singular focus. Oddly enough, I myself ended up with a real-life Peeta. It literally just hit me how many of the relationship nuances (sans the dystopian, post apocalyptic kiddie death-match)  I could draw from my relationship to that of Katniss and Peeta. But one thing I must say is:

As awesome as Katniss is for kicking those traditional video game and movie tropes (no self identity outside of the male lead, weak, requiring rescuing, hypersexualized , etc) in the butt, Peeta is equally as awesome for his dismantling of popular male tropes.

BTW: A million thank you's to TV Guide Network for tickets to the LA Red Carpet premier. I had a blast!